Getting a new cat is exciting, but building a strong bond can take time. Cats often communicate affection differently from dogs, so their behavior can be easy to misunderstand. Fortunately, there are several subtle signs that your cat feels safe, comfortable, and connected to you.

One clear sign is kneading. When your cat gently pushes its paws against your lap, a blanket, or another soft surface while relaxing beside you, it usually indicates comfort. Bringing you toys or other objects can also be a social behavior, while choosing to sleep beside you shows that your cat trusts you enough to relax in your presence.

Affection can appear in many forms. Your cat may rub its head or body against you, curl up next to you, follow you from room to room, or gently nudge you for attention. Grooming you by licking is another social behavior that can indicate trust and affection. And when your cat purrs while calmly sitting with you or being petted, it may be showing that it feels content and secure.

Perhaps one of the biggest signs of trust is when your cat rolls over and exposes its belly. This generally means the cat feels safe around you, although it doesn’t necessarily mean it wants a belly rub. Slow blinking, relaxed body language, and choosing to stay close are also positive signs. Remember, every cat has a different personality, so give the relationship time to develop. With patience, consistency, and respect for your cat’s boundaries, you may soon become inseparable.